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	<title>Comments on: Opinion Column: Big Step Forward For Children</title>
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		<title>By: Prayerful</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Prayerful]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2014 12:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well said Monica.  your legal expertise shows.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said Monica.  your legal expertise shows.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr.Ed</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2014 10:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Had we had the same thoughts of bringing both Parents together to share the wellbeing of the Children no matter if there separated in the 70&#039;s and 80&#039;s we would not have the problems with youth behavior today.
Both the UBP and the PLP are to blame!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Had we had the same thoughts of bringing both Parents together to share the wellbeing of the Children no matter if there separated in the 70&#8242;s and 80&#8242;s we would not have the problems with youth behavior today.<br />
Both the UBP and the PLP are to blame!</p>
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		<title>By: Monica Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Monica Jones]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2014 15:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am all for this.  However, mediation is a very costly process, so I would suggest that you consider adding into the legislation the capacity to have a &quot;family conference&quot; to help the family move towards resolving their conflicts, as another less costly way to restore the relationship for the benefit of the children.

Additionally, shared custody is great.  But to be totally fair, it needs to be accompanied by shared responsibility (especially financial responsibility) by parents who bring children into the world, as no person has yet managed to create a child all by themselves   If fathers continue to be able to avoid full financial responsibility for the children they create, then the inequity of placing much of the financial burden on mothers will continue.  This hardship is experienced by mothers acutely in many cases where parents are not married.

I would also suggest that when fathers are required to take full responsibility (from conception) and have shared custody, then we&#039;ll finally see a move towards greater sexual responsibility, and a focus on the creation of effective birth control methods for men to initiate, which will end much of the unwitting gender bias against mothers that still exists when it comes to parenthood.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am all for this.  However, mediation is a very costly process, so I would suggest that you consider adding into the legislation the capacity to have a &#8220;family conference&#8221; to help the family move towards resolving their conflicts, as another less costly way to restore the relationship for the benefit of the children.</p>
<p>Additionally, shared custody is great.  But to be totally fair, it needs to be accompanied by shared responsibility (especially financial responsibility) by parents who bring children into the world, as no person has yet managed to create a child all by themselves   If fathers continue to be able to avoid full financial responsibility for the children they create, then the inequity of placing much of the financial burden on mothers will continue.  This hardship is experienced by mothers acutely in many cases where parents are not married.</p>
<p>I would also suggest that when fathers are required to take full responsibility (from conception) and have shared custody, then we&#8217;ll finally see a move towards greater sexual responsibility, and a focus on the creation of effective birth control methods for men to initiate, which will end much of the unwitting gender bias against mothers that still exists when it comes to parenthood.</p>
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