Column: Rawlins On Mental Health & More
[Opinion column written by Chardonaé Rawlins]
In Bermuda, we understand the importance of physical health. We speak openly about diabetes, heart disease, blood pressure, fitness. We schedule check-ups. We adjust diets. We recognise that health requires maintenance.
But when it comes to mental health, the conversation is often quieter and narrower.
Too often, we treat mental health as something that only exists when there is a crisis. Something you either “have” or you don’t. Something serious, dramatic, or extreme.
But mental health is not an event. It is not a diagnosis. It is not a label.
It is a spectrum, and every single one of us exists somewhere on it.
A continuum, not a crisis
Mental health moves. It shifts. It responds to life.
There are seasons of thriving when we feel grounded, connected, capable. There are seasons of coping when we are managing, but stretched. And there are seasons of distress when support becomes essential.
Movement along this continuum is not weakness. It is human. Yet culturally, we often behave as though the only acceptable place to exist is “fine.” This creates silence. It discourages early conversations.
And it teaches young people, in particular, that struggling quietly is preferable to speaking honestly.
What our young people are telling us
The recently released Youth Mental Health Plan research led by Dr. Dan Cavanagh reinforces what many professionals working with children and adolescents already see daily: our young people are carrying more than we may realise.
The data highlights increasing emotional strain, anxiety, social pressure, and the impact of digital environments on wellbeing. It reflects not just isolated experiences, but patterns.
This is not about labeling an entire generation as fragile. It is about acknowledging that the landscape they are growing up in is different, more connected, more visible, and often more demanding.
Our children are forming their identities in real time, under constant observation academically, socially, and digitally. They are navigating belonging, comparison, and performance while their brains are still developing the capacity to regulate intense emotion.
If we continue to frame mental health only as a crisis or disorder, we miss the opportunity to support them earlier, when they are coping, but overwhelmed.
The mental load we don’t talk about
In Bermuda, strength is valued. We push through. We persevere. We “get on with it.”
There is pride in that resilience. But resilience without reflection can become emotional suppression.
The mental load, expectations, responsibilities, social dynamics, academic pressure, family stress accumulates quietly. Adults feel it. Teenagers feel it. Even children feel it.
When that load goes unacknowledged, it doesn’t disappear. It surfaces in irritability, withdrawal, perfectionism, anxiety, or shutdown.
These are not character flaws. They are signals.
From stigma to literacy
Demystifying mental health begins with understanding that it is not separate from daily life. It is woven into it.
We need to move from a crisis-focused mindset to a literacy-based one.
Mental health literacy means:
- Recognising emotional shifts early
- Understanding the difference between stress and sustained distress
- Giving children language for what they feel
- Modeling emotional awareness as adults
- Viewing support as proactive, not reactive
It means teaching our young people that emotions are information, not weakness.
A community responsibility
Shifting the narrative cannot rest solely on parents or schools. It requires collective responsibility.
How are we speaking about mental health in our homes? How are we responding when a young person says they feel overwhelmed? Are we dismissing their experiences because they look “fine”? Are we equipping ourselves with the knowledge to understand the spectrum?
The Youth Mental Health Plan makes it clear: the need is not hypothetical. It is present. It is measurable. And it requires coordinated effort.
Changing the conversation
Mental health is not static. It is cyclical. It fluctuates with life’s seasons.
When we begin to understand this, we create room for compassion, not only for young people, but for ourselves.
We allow someone to say, “I’m not okay today,” without fear of judgment. We intervene earlier. We normalise support. We reduce stigma not through slogans, but through understanding.
At Simply Bloom, our work is rooted in increasing mental health literacy across families, schools, and organisations. We believe that when people understand the spectrum of mental health and where they sit on it, they are far more likely to seek support before a crisis.
Shifting the cultural narrative around mental health in Bermuda will not happen overnight. But it begins with acknowledging a simple truth:
Every person has mental health.
It moves.
It changes.
And it deserves the same attention we give our physical wellbeing.
When we make space for that understanding, we strengthen not only individuals, but our community as a whole.
- Simply Bloom is dedicated to advancing family wellness, and child and adolescent mental health in Bermuda through education, advocacy, and community partnerships. To learn more about our work and resources, visit us online or connect with us directly:
- hello@bloombda.com
- www.bloombda.com
- Instagram: @simply.bloombda
- Chardonaé Rawlins, Child & Adolescent Mental Health Specialist | Founder, Simply Bloom Bermuda
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